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Cindy Ojczyk's avatar

That falls into the category of “be careful of what you wish for.” Tough stuff. We dream of a bit more freedom as parents just as our kids dream of it, too. When it happens it’s both celebratory and terrifying. Enjoy your “me” time but be ready and willing for those moments when they seek “us” time. Also, I bet your dogs are feeling the change. A few extra walks and attention go a long way to helping all of you cope.

Jen Ferris, Ph.D.'s avatar

Cindy, this is all so true. Thank you for your thoughts. And yes, the dog gets so many walks now.

Ann Bingham Newman's avatar

I miss all these things too! It’s bittersweet! I miss the little league games, all the practices where I’d sit in the shade reading student papers, working in the snack booth! Even going to my grand children’s games, gymnastics practices, lessons are now a thing of the past! At least we get to do

It again with grandchildren!!

Jen Ferris, Ph.D.'s avatar

Thank you so much for sharing your experiences. Now I have those things to look forward to in the future.